Remember yourself my friend.

Amidst the hustle bustle of city life

Remember yourself my friend.

The nostalgia of running, the cognitive desires of heart

The destiny of head

The longing the craving, pinning for hopes

Amidst all these

Remember yourself my friend

Just view life in your own way

I really mean in your own way

And see amidst the sunset and sunrise

You remember yourself my friend

We all live many lives in a single day. We are children, parents, teachers and friends and at times even the most loathed enemies’ .In all theses roles we at times succumb to the circumstances and at times face them bravely. There’s a new WE every day that we happen to discover subconsciously but dismiss naturally. In these routines acts we forget the parts we got to play in life and start thinking it’s our personality. Nevertheless it’s a part of our being.

To all desperate people who think they are suffers due to the challenges of life. WITH LOVE AND COMPASSION

SAVITA

Should I state a few facts of your existence in this world? Pardon me if it hits you and your existence but these are facts. If useful to you I’ll feel blessed.

A grown up of forty or fifty is the worst enemy of him. He has a family and raises it day in and out caring little about himself. Let’s start with women; I’ll become a ladies first kind of fellow. What is the routine of a housewife? Well!  It’s waking up in the morning to shove her in the kitchen and helping all the members to go to attend their daily chores. Then freshening up and if a bit aware taking regular exercise and chatting with friends or attending the social chores and then teaching kids and helping in the kitchen chores and that’s it.

She finds satisfaction in all this and why she shouldn’t, serving the loved ones is the best way to lead life. Its karma Yoga so religious or not religious she has a smooth life.

UNTILL………………

Now as the kids grow and take flight into their world, this woman gets disturbed. No one around in the evening to attend to; There’s a satisfaction of the presence of the partner to be served yet the lean hours need to be filled. If under such circumstances the better half leaves the world then its darkness, depression and this woman of substance breaks down.

Anxiety and boredom sets in the life of millions of housewives cos’ they do not live for themselves. They illusion themselves thinking the life of kids and spouse is theirs. They mix duty and responsibility with their personal existence. This causes a state of unrest as old age sets in or as a calamity befalls.

How should the new generation therefore set up their life so that they do not reach this state of dismay?

PLAN YOUR LIFE.

I suggest each woman understand the fact that children and spouse are an integral part of their family. They are a part and not HER. She is a separate identity a creation of God or the supreme power and has to understand that there is something that she must do for herself also. The duties and the love for herself should in no way be mixed. Women should therefore have at least one hobby in life. Reading, attending religious rituals, Yoga, spiritual work, writing or even watching serials or movies will do. They will be the best companions at the time the birds take flight. Have a nice healthy mind DEAR ALL.