Dear Santa

I love a life like the christmas pie,

with a gourmout of dishes full of sweet and spice

a toying with  lovely smile

Dear Santa I WISH A LIFE...

Trees with greenery where leaves never die

snow on the hilltop of my desire

A humming of the cuckoo in my soul

A juggling of clown as my essence I unfold

dear santa Iwish a life....

a choco cake with a zing of merry

a drink of love with or without bloody merry

a company that never fades its hue

a deep life like the shining dew

dear santa a wish a life.....

A garden of Eden where love starts with appetite

a heaven on earth without death of goodwill 

a laughter so cute as the angle flies by

a sense of achievement at the fall of night

dear santa I wish a life....

Remember yourself my friend.

Amidst the hustle bustle of city life

Remember yourself my friend.

The nostalgia of running, the cognitive desires of heart

The destiny of head

The longing the craving, pinning for hopes

Amidst all these

Remember yourself my friend

Just view life in your own way

I really mean in your own way

And see amidst the sunset and sunrise

You remember yourself my friend

We all live many lives in a single day. We are children, parents, teachers and friends and at times even the most loathed enemies’ .In all theses roles we at times succumb to the circumstances and at times face them bravely. There’s a new WE every day that we happen to discover subconsciously but dismiss naturally. In these routines acts we forget the parts we got to play in life and start thinking it’s our personality. Nevertheless it’s a part of our being.

To all desperate people who think they are suffers due to the challenges of life. WITH LOVE AND COMPASSION

SAVITA

Should I state a few facts of your existence in this world? Pardon me if it hits you and your existence but these are facts. If useful to you I’ll feel blessed.

A grown up of forty or fifty is the worst enemy of him. He has a family and raises it day in and out caring little about himself. Let’s start with women; I’ll become a ladies first kind of fellow. What is the routine of a housewife? Well!  It’s waking up in the morning to shove her in the kitchen and helping all the members to go to attend their daily chores. Then freshening up and if a bit aware taking regular exercise and chatting with friends or attending the social chores and then teaching kids and helping in the kitchen chores and that’s it.

She finds satisfaction in all this and why she shouldn’t, serving the loved ones is the best way to lead life. Its karma Yoga so religious or not religious she has a smooth life.

UNTILL………………

Now as the kids grow and take flight into their world, this woman gets disturbed. No one around in the evening to attend to; There’s a satisfaction of the presence of the partner to be served yet the lean hours need to be filled. If under such circumstances the better half leaves the world then its darkness, depression and this woman of substance breaks down.

Anxiety and boredom sets in the life of millions of housewives cos’ they do not live for themselves. They illusion themselves thinking the life of kids and spouse is theirs. They mix duty and responsibility with their personal existence. This causes a state of unrest as old age sets in or as a calamity befalls.

How should the new generation therefore set up their life so that they do not reach this state of dismay?

PLAN YOUR LIFE.

I suggest each woman understand the fact that children and spouse are an integral part of their family. They are a part and not HER. She is a separate identity a creation of God or the supreme power and has to understand that there is something that she must do for herself also. The duties and the love for herself should in no way be mixed. Women should therefore have at least one hobby in life. Reading, attending religious rituals, Yoga, spiritual work, writing or even watching serials or movies will do. They will be the best companions at the time the birds take flight. Have a nice healthy mind DEAR ALL.

a battle lost or gained?

a tormentous life came to a stand still as she battled her way to get the maximum comforts for her ailing husband.She fought bravely till the end.She still lives.

This is a true story of a dear friend my tribute to her hardwork though I have no words to comfort her.

Born in a middle class family where a marriage at an early age leaded her to many good and bad experiences in life.She faught the battle of social agonies, she marched high and low to get justice for monetary gains to raise her family.The childhood where we ran around like butterflies in spring time, she battled her way to raise her child.Then came the most inhuminating times of a loss pf property rights, she fought and thrived,we may have carried tears for her but never saw her cry.Then came troubles from family as foes she battle her way through and when one battle seeemd won another trouble came this time to stay and stay everything was in vain.Her husband a patient of diabetes, paralyis was the biggest challenge to her yet she was living.Braving each day and resting at night fall this wonderful friend helped others more than anyone can.The courage that stayed in her being couldnot challenge anything.Beyond this fate of nature no fatigue ever set until yesterday when this unrest gave way to the succcumbing of her soull mate to death bed and now the almighty perahps rests from giving her no more troubles the worst shares of life are enough for the life time.Today she stands where she was none to help in the life long cause: she is brave.She is there all alone and I the biggest friend cannot gather courage to even chant ....a few words of regret.Please donot ask her name.....

new thoughts of helping desperate parents.

hey,I am thinking of helping parents with little capacity to acknowledge their kids performance or those having problems in dealing with kids.I am doing this recently with success and its a pleasure to see families reunited through a little effort on my part too.I'll write a few prolems with ways to rsolve them.It would be welcome if you guys would come forward to tell me what causes anxiety in the family.A little discussion helps.

Where are you heading too my child

Nagging is another name for mom. I understand all the kids talking about their parents in this way especially during the teenage. They feel parents always oppose their kids do this not that, this is right that’s not. It hurts their independence and disrupts their struggle to lead a different life. Kids consider their parents as outdated and pessimistic blocks who have are far behind them in all aspects. Yes they are true that this day is far much better than that day, technologically. But children forget that this technological development is the hard work of masterminds who have worked day and night to give them something new. Even the young scientists research the past inventions and bring new ideas to it in the form of the most recent output .The how can the ideas of the parents (past) be wrong?

When research is the word then how can one not believe that the child of today is the result of yesterday’s actions and will be a better future through the continuous efforts of upliftment of the past that is with them in the form of their parents?

I would request the present generation to at least think once before stating their parents as naggers. What benefit will they have by lecturing you? They are the givers of life, how are they to benefit by stopping you from going for late night parties or keeping you away from the bad influences in life?

Late night outings, dancing on the floor and freaking out with friends is to be logically reconsidered. The instantaneous sources of joy are what other than myths of life. What is concrete is how you are going to advance further. What’s more important is why you are in this world. What are you planning to do to make your life a happy one? Will the time wasted in the early years of life comes back. Will it not lead you further into the ditch of dirt how will you manage the material required to live in this world.

Teenage is the stage to decide for a future where your capabilities will help you party lifelong.

sticky notes from my side

lurking humans of desire
waft with the heartless soul
make a many depressing moments
oH my soul my sole                                   
                                                
                                                                        merriness shone its laughter through christmas bells
                                                                            how many old thoughts were cherished
                                                                       how beautiful the new world of thoughts seemed
                                                                      amidst the christmas of the old and new days.

just then the sun shone high and the clouds faded.
it was bad very bad
cos desire of cold was obscured y warmth
just then the sun shone and clouds faded.                    

Enslaved by destiny or rulers of bliss

Those who comemorate the material honor of destiny are the most pitied ones. They claim to be masters of destiny when they are actually slaves of destiny trying to pull them this ways and that. They have actually lost control over themselves and hence destiny controls them. Destiny destines their fate. It sometimes takes them high up in the material ladder of life so that it brings smile to their face and joy to their heart. It laughs at them by showing them the worst moments of life too when it sees how they cry and shout at the loss of material. Thus people who call themselves rulers of destiny are the worst slaves of destiny.
What exactly is requied of humans in this short visit to the world. A close look at life reveals that its a process wherein the child of admiration and desire of the parents love is brought into human form and thus instilling hopes of the best ways of living through love, compassion, education and material.Thus the child of desire turns into a man or woman of desire to repeat the process.Material comes into play for the fulfillment of human needs.How much have we taken from others or given to others that we get proud of our possessions. Why should one share matrial or show his richness to another or insult his less materialistic existence? Is it not a wastage of productive energy?
The richest form of existence is the top most storey of our brain. Does it have calmness or does it frequently surrender to the adverse and/or positive circumstances in life. The richest form of existence is calmness of mind and detachment of soul as it works in the material plane.
Every man in this world will have his share of happiness and sorrow. Everyhuman form will get ample as he desires. remember there is always enough for everyone in this universe.The main object of life is happiness, an internal state of constant happiness. If one achives this bliss then he is the richest human and can call himself the master mind( but to himself). The word controller of destiny still doesn't come here as destiny is not a fixed goal that we call 'Manjil" in hindi. Destiny is not an aim of life.
Living Gods also bent infront of destiny because they didnot want to be enslaved by destiny.The best way to live was to come for a purpose and exit and that's what we see in every text.Make hapiness and experience of bliss as the target of life.God be with all of us.

A LETTER TO YOUR TEENAGER WILL HELP

Dear Son/Daughter

Now that you are growing and in the sweet teens I just wish to talk to you through some experiences of the past. When I was of your age I too was exactly like you full of life, happy social and enjoying life with a beautiful company of friends. My parents on the other hand were like us serious, lecturing and telling me to focus on studies. I did not understand their point and called it unnecessary nagging and may be…may be, you also feel that way.

It’s funny that once I was also your age and then things were also same in some respect while there was naturally a great difference too.

DIFFERENCE WAS OF THE TIME

It’s a gap of say more than three decades.

THINGS YOU HAVE:

1. BETTER FACILITIES

2. TECHNOLOGY

3. MORE OPEN ENVIRONMENT INFLUENCED BY WESTERN CULTURE

4, MORE CHOICE TO MINGLE WITH DIFFERENT GROUPS

5. MORE GAMES TO ENJOY

6. BETTER LEARNING FACILITY

THINGS I HAD OR RATHER WE.

1. GOOD EDUCATION

2. SPORTS ACTIVITIES RESTRICTED TO SCHOOL

3. LIBRARIES

4. THEATRE FOR MOVIES

5. SOCIAL GROUP RESTRICTED TO SCHOOL BOUNDARIES

6. TAPE RECORDERS FOR MUSIC

IT’S GOOD TO SEE THAT YOU ARE GETTING MUCH MORE THAN US AS THE WORLD’S EXPANDING THROUGH GLOBAL INTEREST. WE WERE RESTRICTED TO SCHOOL AND COLLEGE.

But son there is one thing that we and you share and so will the coming generation. To create the resource to continue existing in the best way is what we required and so will you. This necessity cannot be fulfilled even by the richest of the rich. This one requirement desires a lot during the initial teenage stage of our life and this demands a lot of us so that we are able to live properly and help our family live properly.

I know it’s a parents’ duty to supply all security of life to his children but will it not be considered as making a child handicap if we furnish everything throughout your life. So I feel it is necessary for each one of us to recognize our talents and work on them simultaneous to enjoyment. We all deserve recreation, social bonding and fun but not at the cost of our future. If a child can work on both the aspects of work (focus on studies) and entertainment then I feel he will never need to cheat others or himself and will definitely be successful in life. Success and happiness are two things you must desire and for that we need to put concentrated effort on studies, study and enjoy do not just enjoy is all I can suggest to all kids.

I am your mother, the one who has formed you in me, the giver of this beautiful life to you, how can I not be a friend? Share your happiness and fear and sadness with me. I would love to extend a bond of friendship to you as you grow and make friends in the world.

Welcome home for all homely experiences make a person fit to survive in the world. There is no other beautiful bond than that which starts at home cos’ family members are the ones who can always be yours truly loving, forgiving and  uplifting. Try it out whenever you need

Love you